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Being single is a gift that should be cherished while you have it because it might be just for a short while.
You have control over your time and your choices, gives you that extra time to serve God with “reckless abandonment” which will bring you such inexpressible joy that will make you complete in God. No marriage, kids or career can give you that joy or make you complete… as a matter of fact without finding this joy in your maker you will never be able to fully enjoy your marriage because you will keep asking or demanding for more than any man can give from your husband and children.
It is a strategic position to serve God and humanity, get over yourself and get busy reaching out to people and touching/impacting lives positively. Remember, Incompleteness is not the result of being single but of not being full of Jesus and only the single woman who understands what it means to be complete in Jesus is mature enough to be a helpmate (complement) to another man.
You need to stop trying to work it out for God, stop focusing on the situation and start focusing on the sovereign one.
Love Him like you would love an earthly lover and watch him give you that man that will love you like He loves you. What do you give to God? That which costs you nothing? Do not give to God that which costs you nothing, give your all (reckless abandonment) and trust him while you live a happy and fulfilled life as a single…….Selah.
Originally written by my friend & sister…DAMOLA BABATUNDE